My favorite pro-marriage equality icons of the day

Sally Ride, first female astronaut, comes out in her obituary

Sally Ride, who died today after a 17-month battle with pancreatic cancer, was the first female U.S. astronaut in space and became friends with Tam O’Shaugnessy at the age of 12. It was not until today, however — nearly 50 years after meeting — that their 27-year romantic relationship was made public.

The pioneering scientist was, a statement from Sally Ride Science announced, survived by “Tam O’Shaughnessy, her partner of 27 years.”

(Source: BuzzFeed)

Colorlines on how Frank Ocean might change our conversations about coming out

“Frank Ocean’s letter is also fundamentally different from Anderson Cooper’s recent coming out. It’s worth noting that while Cooper’s coming out was relatively detail-free, a flipping of a switch—“the fact is, I’m gay,” end of story—Ocean never used those two magic words, instead giving us his feelings to empathize with.

This is not to diminish Cooper’s actions or to say how or when someone should come out, let’s be clear. But how often have we heard a career-established public figure describe loving another man? Frank Ocean’s letter is knocking down more taboos than we may realize.”

(Source: colorlines.com)

Anderson Cooper to Andrew Sullivan on visibility and coming out

“I’ve also been reminded recently that while as a society we are moving toward greater inclusion and equality for all people, the tide of history only advances when people make themselves fully visible. There continue to be far too many incidences of bullying of young people, as well as discrimination and violence against people of all ages, based on their sexual orientation, and I believe there is value in making clear where I stand.

The fact is, I’m gay, always have been, always will be, and I couldn’t be any more happy, comfortable with myself, and proud.

Read the full message here

You want to be commander in chief? You can start by standing up for the men and women who wear the uniform of the United States, even when it’s not politically convenient. 

"I have to define doing the right thing as treating all persons with equality."

— Senator Stephen Saland (R), (likely) deciding vote on NY marriage equality bill